What is one thing you would change about yourself?
If I could change one thing,
I’d want to be braver.
Back in high school,
I could have taken the entrance exam a second time.
But I didn’t.
I chose the easier path — accepting the first result,
telling myself it was “good enough.”
During military service,
there were moments I could have shown more of who I was.
But I stayed quiet,
safe,
invisible.
At work,
there were roles I wanted to try,
paths I wanted to explore.
But I kept myself inside the familiar,
even when I knew I had more to give.
And in everyday life,
ideas and possibilities came and went.
Most of them disappeared before they had a chance,
shut down by my own hesitation.
Looking back,
life feels like a book I flipped through too quickly —
chapters I never fully stepped into,
choices I accepted too early.
Regret is part of being human.
Maybe unavoidable.
But now things feel a little different.
With AI as an assistant,
and a thinking partner,
I can bring those old “maybe someday” ideas back to the table.
Ask.
Test.
Simulate.
Try again without the weight of consequence.
Life doesn’t restart,
but the way I think can.
Courage can, too —
one small step at a time.
And maybe this time,
the story really doesn’t have to repeat.

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